In a moment I will ask you to close your eyes and recall a moment where you felt utterly tight, nervous, disassociated and paralyzed when talking to a girl.
Visualize A Past Interaction With A Girl In The Street
Ok close your eyes now and actively imagine this for 20 seconds, and then return here to read the rest… 🧘🏻♂🧘🏻♂🧘🏻♂ What have you noticed about yourself?
What did you feel then?
What made you feel it?
Is she causing you to feel paralyzed? Or are you causing yourself to feel paralyzed?
Is feeling paralyzed in the presence of a girl a bad thing? Or is there a message in the paralysis for you to discover about your resistance to experience, your resistance to yourself, or your chronic perception of your personality, or your feelings of shame, as they may be held in the body?
You must get deeply curious in this way, because any other way is a way around the issue.
You must discard and reject every trick in the book you heard that isn’t encouraging you to go to the root.